ask Mr. Kate: how do i start a blog?

below are a couple of questions, from you lovely readers, that represent the many we've gotten in regards to blogging advice and how to start a blog:

Janice writes: Hiya Mr Kate, i've been following your blog for a few months now and you've inspired me to start my own! But i don't know what the best blog website to use is... and if you've got any tips from an expert to a rookie, they would be greatly appreciated! Jennah H. writes: Hey Mr. Kate, I was thinking about starting up my own blog, but I'm not quite sure how to start, if you can give any advice that would be awesome. Thanks.

Hi all you smarties! Since the Mr. Kate blog is a team effort, I'll share a few of my tips and then Joey will get into the technicalities! Let me start out by saying that laptops are the best for on-the-go blogging (re: above pic). The Mr. Kate site has had different iterations over the last er, three years and is a more complex site than you'll be able to get just starting out, unless you have knowledge of web design and programming (which I don't but Joey is the master at that and he chimes in below!). Anyone can start a blog with the free sites like Tumblr, Wordpress, Blogger, or (free trial) Typepad. There are lots of free templates that you can implement with some light reading or tutorial watching to make your blog look more designed and add custom headers etc.

I started the Mr. Kate blog as a way to chronicle my different creative projects and as an information source to accompany my online jewelry store, under the same name. Fortunately, I've had Joey with me from blog conception who is a self-taught, and very talented, web designer and programmer. Thus the Mr. Kate site has always has personalized 'programmed' elements that you can't really get with a template but you could get by hiring your own web designer/programmer. But don't despair if you don't have a live-in programmer because you can start your free blog, use a fantastic free template, take great pics and post as often as possible! Then when you're ready, you can pay someone to amp up your blog with some custom design.

Here are the wisdom nuggets I can share with you first-time bloggers:

  • Have a point of view and stick to it - decide what you want to blog about, what your 'look' and 'voice' are and try to stick to that with each blog post you publish. That includes what you name the blog, what you title the posts and categories of your blog, etc. Try to be unique and true to yourself, there are so many blogs out there but the thing that will make yours different is YOU!
  • Post often! When I started the Mr. Kate blog, I posed the challenge to myself to blog every day. It was a way for me to have a routine and I'm proud to say that I've lived up to that, posting almost every day for the past 3 years. The more often you post the more you'll be forced to see the world as possible content for your blog and the better your blog will be. Be a perfectionist and be committed. Once readers learn that they will have new content to absorb from your blog every day, they'll visit regularly.
  • Get a nice camera - quality, original content and photos are what will set your blog a part from the masses. Anyone can re-post existing content on the web but if people know that they will be seeing NEW, never-seen-before photos and reading content with a consistent point of view, they will be return visitors.
  • Edit your photos in Photoshop or if you don't want to spend the money try a program like CameraBag - elevate your custom content by editing your photos and making them look as good as they can be. Be a perfectionist!
  • Share your posts. Sign up for all the other social networking/sharing sites i.e. Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest and share your content. Make sure your friends and followers know that you have a blog, when you post, etc. This will encourage more visits and feedback which will educate and motivate you to keep blogging!
So that is my two cents on how to start a blog and keep on blogging but now Joey will give you some more technical info... Take it away Joooooeeeyyyy: Here at Mr. Kate we use Wordpress, and for the sake of this article we recommend that you do too. What you'll need:
  1. Your raw piece of land on the internet = A hosting account.
  2. An address for your raw piece of land so people can find you = A domain name
  3. A home on your raw piece of land in which to entertain = Wordpress
  4. Exterior and Interior Design = A Template
  5. Hot Dinner = Your blog posts
  6. Fancy Dinner Guests = Your blog readers
Okay so let's get started. Feel free to ask questions or give your helpful tips in the comments below! What is Wordpress you ask? Good question. Wordpress is what's known as a "content management system". In a nut-shell it does all of the heavy lifting for you. Think of it as your personal assistant. It takes the information you want to put into it (a blog post for example) and organizes it both for storage and for display to your web visitors. The other aspect to wordpress is the template system it uses to display the content that you've organized using the aforementioned content management system. The templates are the structure and graphical design elements that your visitors see when they come to your website. You can read up about it more here: What is Wordpress Okay, so how do I get Wordpress? Wordpress is free and easy to obtain and get started with. You have two options: you can either use the hosted version at (recommended if you are not very good with the internet) or the self-hosted version (recommended if you expect to have a lot of visitors, want to be able to customize exactly to your desires and are not afraid of the internet). "Hosted" just means someone else controls the installation of Wordpress and you get to create a profile on it and use their services. Think Facebook, except you get to customize your page more. The upside to Hosted is you don't have to know anything about servers or coding to use it. You just sign up and go. The downside to hosted is you give up some of the ability to customize your visitor's experience. Don't get me wrong, you can do most of the things that you would want to do, but it's not as flexible as the self-hosted version. A hosted version of Wordpress is kind of akin to living in your parents basement. You can hang up as many posters on the walls as you want and play music as loud as you want, but at the end of the day its still your parents crib, and you will turn down that noise if it's after 11pm and no you can't have a drum-set. Self-hosted means that you have a slice or a whole server somewhere that is your piece of land for you to build whatever you want on it. On that land you can put your own self-contained version of Wordpress. You are the key holder and you can do whatever you want to it. The downside is this also means you can break it. Fortunately, because there are so many millions of people using the self-hosted version if you ever do break something, the usually easy fix is just a google away. If you are just starting out, and all you want is a simple blog then I would recommend going the easiest and fastest route with the hosted version of Wordpress. You could also just as easily use Blogger or Tumblr for that matter. They all pretty much do the same thing, and if you are you were able to figure out how to use Facebook, you can figure out how to use any of these. That said, I won't focus on setting up the hosted version here since that's not what we use at Mr. Kate, but if you want to go that route here's a great step by step for the hosted version of Wordpress: In general, if you want the ability to fully customize what your site does and how it looks, the self-hosted version of Wordpress is the way to go. I'm going to outline the easiest way to get rolling with the self-hosted version of Wordpress.
  1. First you need a domain name. This is how people will reach your website on the internet. Our domain name is You want something fun, memorable and relevant to what your site is going to be about.
  2. Once you have decided what you want your domain name to be you can sign up for your hosting account which will include registering that domain name. As I said above, your hosting account is basically your little slice of land on the internet and your domain name is your address on the street.
  3. I would recommend using Hostgator to set-up your domain name and hosting account as their service is very cheap, reliable, and easy to set-up and use. For the sake of the rest of this post I will assume you are using a "shared hosting" account with Hostgator (For most sites a "shared" hosting account is just fine. If you are expecting a lot of traffic you might need a Virtual Private, Cloud or Dedicated Server...but if that's the case I would recommend hiring someone who knows what they are doing to get you set-up). One thing to keep in mind about shared hosting is you might have your own land and house, but you are in a neighborhood so you won't be immune to the neighbors who may call the cops if your party is too loud.
  4. Once you've purchased a hosting account package you will be given login information to your cPanel account. This is your soil. In your soil we want to plant a beautiful Wordpress. It's super easy to plant your Wordpress and grow it. Check out this link for a simple and easy step-by-step to getting your Wordpress installation up and running on your Hostgator account.
  5. Now that you have your wordpress up and running, you want to pick a theme. You could hire a designer who specializes in creating wordpress themes or you could take the easier, cheaper and instantaneous route and just pick one of the thousands of already existing free wordpress themes. Don't worry, you can use an existing theme and still put personal touches like your logo, graphics and colors on it to make it your own. Here's a simple step-by-step to finding themes and installing them:
  6. Now that you have your theme selected your site is ready to be viewed. Now all you need to do is start cooking (writing your blogs) and sharing your domain name with the world, and it won't be long before you have dinner guests.
There are obviously a lot of things you can do once you have your blog set-up, but we won't get into that now to avoid this post being suuuper long, but feel free to ask specific questions in the comments section below and we'll do our best to help out. There are so many aspects of blogging to talk about so let us know what particular aspects you'd like us to dive into further and perhaps we'll do another blog post about them. Happy Blogging!

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